March 21th 2020
Opening our hearts and your life to a new person can be one of the most beautiful, exciting, fulfilling events we experience in a lifetime, and it can also be one of the most scary and challenging, especially if you have encountered hurt in past relationships.
So the dating adventure comes with its own desires and feelings of uncertainty. We invest precious time, energy and emotions getting to know another dater, enjoying time together, while still figuring out if they are what we are looking for in a partner and also trying to guard our heart just in case they are not. Meeting other daters who have made the same vegan choices as you is easier on 121vegandating.com
What happens if you meet a dater who really matched you but is not a vegan and has no desire to follow a vegan lifestyle? Each person has the right to choose their lifestyle and the journey that they take in their life, and if you are a match in all other aspects you may need to over look your partners decision to not follow your vegan stance and possibly you will need to draw strength and commit to respect each other’s right to choose the lifestyle that you feel is right for you. The respect and patience needs to be mutual and will require some grace from you both.
When going out, look at menus ahead of time, so that you can both feel comfortable with choices ahead of booking the table. Build up a selection of comfortable and familiar restaurants that you are both happy with as this will take some of the stress out of ordering and eating food.
As a vegan, you’re probably no stranger to the limited options some restaurants provide, but if you are happy with the choices and you feel comfortable that will be half the battle and it removes the panic and anxiety of perusing a new menu. There is a depressing sense of watching everyone eating a meal and you are picking through a wilted salad.
Look at a menu online to be sure that you will both have options that you will enjoy, this means that the evening will be enjoyable and guilt free. With the growth in vegan and vegetarian options I am sure you will find that most restaurants have options that will appease even the pickiest of palates.
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